Okay guys, who else wants to learn how to last longer during sex? I
reckon most of you would love to do that, right? There is nothing to be
embarrassed about wanting to last longer. In fact, according to Men's
Health, as many as 70 percent of men want to know how to improve their
sexual stamina. So you have good company!
Unfortunately, there is a huge disparity between what men want, and what women desire...
Okay,
being able to last long enough is a great thing. But for most guys, sex
is all about the "end goal", the big climax. For women, it really is
about how they are being brought to the end result, that is, their
journey towards an orgasm.
The reason most men want to improve their stamina is because they are mistaken this is the only way their partners can enjoy sex. The simple truth is, having intercourse for 15 minutes or longer can be a pretty uncomfortable experience (and possibly even a painful one) for a woman. This is because constant thrusting usually causes the vagina to dry up.
The
way to GREAT sex is to simply learn about your woman's sexual needs.
Every woman is unique. Each has her own intricacies when it comes to
lovemaking, for example, specific areas on her body that she desires to
be touched. Some women love prolonged physical foreplay; others prefer
some dirty communication under the sheets. Some prefer the missionary
position; others feel very sexy with "doggie style".
The key is to learn what she likes, and focus on that, regardless of how long you can last. Hint: You won't go wrong with oral sex. Relative to size, your tongue has the strongest muscle on your body. It can create incredible orgasmic sensations for a woman just by learning how to go down on her!
It
is still important, but you only need to last as long as it takes for
her to reach an orgasm. And when you learn to focus on her sexual needs
and heighten her arousal first, you will lower her orgasmic threshold.
The faster she comes to a climax, the less emphasis on your ability to last. So, if she typically takes 15 minutes to achieve the big 'O' and you can lower that to 5 minutes (for example, through proper foreplay), than you literally just need to last 5 minutes. Makes plenty of sense, doesn't it?
Unfortunately, there is a huge disparity between what men want, and what women desire...
The reason most men want to improve their stamina is because they are mistaken this is the only way their partners can enjoy sex. The simple truth is, having intercourse for 15 minutes or longer can be a pretty uncomfortable experience (and possibly even a painful one) for a woman. This is because constant thrusting usually causes the vagina to dry up.
The key is to learn what she likes, and focus on that, regardless of how long you can last. Hint: You won't go wrong with oral sex. Relative to size, your tongue has the strongest muscle on your body. It can create incredible orgasmic sensations for a woman just by learning how to go down on her!
The faster she comes to a climax, the less emphasis on your ability to last. So, if she typically takes 15 minutes to achieve the big 'O' and you can lower that to 5 minutes (for example, through proper foreplay), than you literally just need to last 5 minutes. Makes plenty of sense, doesn't it?
About
the author:
Lloyd
Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation ByCommand",
a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end
premature
ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior
sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation ByCommand.
No comments:
Post a Comment